Flirting or Restricted To Love?
My brother and I knew this female friend, she's quite a emotional girl but that's not the point and the main topic I want to post today is about flirting. Haha.. you must be shocked, I seldom wrote about this kind of thing at my blog but I usually discuss this kind of topic with my brothers very often.
Well... this female friend of mine thought I was a "qing shen" a romantic killer and of course I dun think so but she told my bro that she always saw me flirting with girls and she said I got a good communication skill for romantic conversations with girls! (hong nu hai) Haha... I know some of you is already laughing but hahaha I find it super funny too. Anyway... I'm really not that kind who flirt around and I'm really a faithful person when comes to any relationship, like friendship and BGR (I believe I will have one before the age of 26). That dosen't mean that I am good in relationship, guess I have lots of emotional weakness too but I guess that's the only strength I have... being faithful in heart (and sometimes I'll restrict my actions and adjust accordingly on my assurance level).
So right now let me thank all my friends, thanks for giving me a chance to be faithful and maybe you may not like me or you might disagree with what I post tonight but one thing I am saying out of my very heart, I will always be a faithful friend to those who accepted me as a friend.
What kind of life will you be living 10 years down the road? We won't know, nevertherless we can always do our best to live out our very unique new life in the years to come! This is my life, my road, my Days@BlackRoad to new life.
Friday, February 29, 2008
Thursday, February 28, 2008
Relationship And Ourselves
Men are not designed to be alone and that's why in every organization, every family, every circles of friends are looking for real relationship and unity.
People always make a big difference in our lives, that's why you see people hanging out, offering to treat, offering to celebrate and it is so beautiful to me.
It's good to have friends but it's better to have friends that will be united together working with your dreams and visions. Everyman needs a team, support and not just Kopitiam friends. Not just those who always once in a while appear and talk about life! No, there's a reason for a gathering and things that looks unspiritual can be spiritual! Of course you need to set your prioity right and yes it is not just gathering and recruiting but it is much more than that.
God is looking for a team full of faith and expectations, doing things that seems to be crazy but the fact is they are really the one called to be History Maker and I know one thing for sure, if we don't change our thinking and we don't deal with ourselves then no one will be attracted to you and all of them will remain as your coffee friends for sure.
I knew this and that's why, what others did to you is not that important but it's how you respond to it! It's not about your situation but it is what you can do in your situation, are you weak or strong? I remember I read this from the bible and it is so true in our lives:
Matthew 5:13 “You are the salt of the earth; but if the salt loses its flavor, how shall it be seasoned? It is then good for nothing but to be thrown out and trampled underfoot by men.
Where will I be? What will I become? It is now Emil.... don't give up!
Men are not designed to be alone and that's why in every organization, every family, every circles of friends are looking for real relationship and unity.
People always make a big difference in our lives, that's why you see people hanging out, offering to treat, offering to celebrate and it is so beautiful to me.
It's good to have friends but it's better to have friends that will be united together working with your dreams and visions. Everyman needs a team, support and not just Kopitiam friends. Not just those who always once in a while appear and talk about life! No, there's a reason for a gathering and things that looks unspiritual can be spiritual! Of course you need to set your prioity right and yes it is not just gathering and recruiting but it is much more than that.
God is looking for a team full of faith and expectations, doing things that seems to be crazy but the fact is they are really the one called to be History Maker and I know one thing for sure, if we don't change our thinking and we don't deal with ourselves then no one will be attracted to you and all of them will remain as your coffee friends for sure.
I knew this and that's why, what others did to you is not that important but it's how you respond to it! It's not about your situation but it is what you can do in your situation, are you weak or strong? I remember I read this from the bible and it is so true in our lives:
Matthew 5:13 “You are the salt of the earth; but if the salt loses its flavor, how shall it be seasoned? It is then good for nothing but to be thrown out and trampled underfoot by men.
Where will I be? What will I become? It is now Emil.... don't give up!
Saturday, February 23, 2008
Thinking and Communcation
It's friday night again! Well would like to talk abit, Actually I think I can be quite uncle at times, sometimes just can't stop saying the same thing over and over again. Well... but seriously speaking how to become a good talker? (In other words social expert?)
Of course, I'm not an expert and you know sometimes you can know something but it's another thing when comes to application.
Well I think there's a set of good rules you can follow but that's only just one factor, I think your mind plays a bit part too! I personally think the first thing we should start to work on is our thinking, the way we think about ourselves affects the way we behave and of course the way we behave will affect others. Another fact about thinking and communication is the way you think about others, example like have you forgived that particular person, look down on others, or do you really love the person or do you have motive? All of it plays a bit part!
Well... so personally I think we should first work on our thinking then communications tactic. After all, sometimes people can feel what's on your mind.
So let us all keep it up k? Goodnight!
It's friday night again! Well would like to talk abit, Actually I think I can be quite uncle at times, sometimes just can't stop saying the same thing over and over again. Well... but seriously speaking how to become a good talker? (In other words social expert?)
Of course, I'm not an expert and you know sometimes you can know something but it's another thing when comes to application.
Well I think there's a set of good rules you can follow but that's only just one factor, I think your mind plays a bit part too! I personally think the first thing we should start to work on is our thinking, the way we think about ourselves affects the way we behave and of course the way we behave will affect others. Another fact about thinking and communication is the way you think about others, example like have you forgived that particular person, look down on others, or do you really love the person or do you have motive? All of it plays a bit part!
Well... so personally I think we should first work on our thinking then communications tactic. After all, sometimes people can feel what's on your mind.
So let us all keep it up k? Goodnight!
Tuesday, February 05, 2008
Thought I Was Going To Die
Last Sunday morning, I woke up with abit of flu and so I thought it was ok for me to serve at Church. Well it became fever after I came down from the platform. Wow.. the message is very good, it's really a rhema word to my life and guess what after the service my cell member and I were super tired so we parted our seperate ways immediately after the service, so when I was on my way to MRT station, I lost control of my body and my leg refused to obey my command almost banged into people and objects.
After a while (which was ages to me), I went back home and thought I'll be okay after my rest and few hours later the heat temperature increased and I think the fever had already progressed to high fever. I quickily grab some panados, 2 caps for 3 times that Sunday, almost slept the whole day but still the heat temperature didn't stop.
In the midnight, I felt that my head almost like going to explode and I really really thought I was going to die as I was really struggling in pain and immediately I thought of something, if I die now what's my last words? Not going to tell you since I'm still alive but I can tell you that the msg I thought of is really a very sad msg and it will affect the people around me. It's a msg of appreciation though.
That night I told myself "I really cannot die! I have lots of things to do, lots of things to settle, lots of things to let go and I wanted to go at the right time." Well after that night still the heat temprature was still as high as that midnight but I have peace that I will start to recover after taking another 2 caps. To cut the long story short, I know that in future when I'm ready to go my msg will still be an appreciation msg but it will be different and people will smile with tears when they read it.
Don't waste your time, do what you can before it is too late!
Wow, so I have been sleeping for 2 days +! Really need this kind of rest. By the way... I'll be going to Malaysia tomorrow to visit my relatives, so let me wish you in advance a Happy Chinese New Year!!! Firecrackers!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! BOOM!!!
Last Sunday morning, I woke up with abit of flu and so I thought it was ok for me to serve at Church. Well it became fever after I came down from the platform. Wow.. the message is very good, it's really a rhema word to my life and guess what after the service my cell member and I were super tired so we parted our seperate ways immediately after the service, so when I was on my way to MRT station, I lost control of my body and my leg refused to obey my command almost banged into people and objects.
After a while (which was ages to me), I went back home and thought I'll be okay after my rest and few hours later the heat temperature increased and I think the fever had already progressed to high fever. I quickily grab some panados, 2 caps for 3 times that Sunday, almost slept the whole day but still the heat temperature didn't stop.
In the midnight, I felt that my head almost like going to explode and I really really thought I was going to die as I was really struggling in pain and immediately I thought of something, if I die now what's my last words? Not going to tell you since I'm still alive but I can tell you that the msg I thought of is really a very sad msg and it will affect the people around me. It's a msg of appreciation though.
That night I told myself "I really cannot die! I have lots of things to do, lots of things to settle, lots of things to let go and I wanted to go at the right time." Well after that night still the heat temprature was still as high as that midnight but I have peace that I will start to recover after taking another 2 caps. To cut the long story short, I know that in future when I'm ready to go my msg will still be an appreciation msg but it will be different and people will smile with tears when they read it.
Don't waste your time, do what you can before it is too late!
Wow, so I have been sleeping for 2 days +! Really need this kind of rest. By the way... I'll be going to Malaysia tomorrow to visit my relatives, so let me wish you in advance a Happy Chinese New Year!!! Firecrackers!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! BOOM!!!
Sunday, February 03, 2008
"SAW" The Beginning Of Everything
To me our eyes is the beginning of everything, where you look at it, how you look at it, all will affect your life. Now I understand why people took drugs, I really really can have a taste of their life.
The pain, the feeling of a walking dead, ohh it's really scary.
People like the comic daredevil, killing all those bad guys just to make him feel better, trying to control his inner hurts of one mafia boss murdered his dad. People like spiderman after losing his gf, the black thing seems like something fun to make him numb (though the gf came back).
One thing I learn about life is, no matter who you are, Spiderman (things turn out to be good) or daredevil (the one who failed to save his girlfriend), don't give up, don't give up your dreams, look at the right direction and stop making reverse.
Ohh... I can't wait to walk out of this place and never return to it again.
To me our eyes is the beginning of everything, where you look at it, how you look at it, all will affect your life. Now I understand why people took drugs, I really really can have a taste of their life.
The pain, the feeling of a walking dead, ohh it's really scary.
People like the comic daredevil, killing all those bad guys just to make him feel better, trying to control his inner hurts of one mafia boss murdered his dad. People like spiderman after losing his gf, the black thing seems like something fun to make him numb (though the gf came back).
One thing I learn about life is, no matter who you are, Spiderman (things turn out to be good) or daredevil (the one who failed to save his girlfriend), don't give up, don't give up your dreams, look at the right direction and stop making reverse.
Ohh... I can't wait to walk out of this place and never return to it again.
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