It's Hard For Ex To Be Fren Again? (1 Day Left Before My Re-Service)

Haha extracted from one of my fren huimin's blog. Well... I guess this is one of the entry I really think it is intresting to read because... I find that through the conversation I learn more about myself and others. So this is the highlight of the day! Cheers! 1 more day to go for my re-service!

I'll be away from home for Police KINS Unit In Camp Training 1 from: 14 July - 1 Aug

Eh before I go, let me just say my stand on the topic of this entry about why can't couples maintain their friendship after they broke off, well seriously I think time can heal your past and I believe in reconciliation BUT after that how close you can be with your ex is really depend on situation. How much each of us can put down the past and trusting each other not having the thought to date again? It's not as simple but lots of things to consider. Okie... enjoy reading this conversation! (btw... pls note I'm not inside the conversation below.)

Why Can't Ex Be Fren Again? (Extracted From Hui Min's Blog)

新的开始新的希望。。。愿这段路会好走。。。 says:
nah
新的开始新的希望。。。愿这段路会好走。。。 says:
its wierd
新的开始新的希望。。。愿这段路会好走。。。 says:
unless...
=< ~:{-GrAcE-}:~ >= rush rush rush says:
unless wad?
新的开始新的希望。。。愿这段路会好走。。。 says:
erm it's a kind of bro relation den get into bg relation
新的开始新的希望。。。愿这段路会好走。。。 says:
den realise not that type of love
新的开始新的希望。。。愿这段路会好走。。。 says:
den still can be frens lor
=< ~:{-GrAcE-}:~ >= rush rush rush says:
y cant couples juz be bacK fren
=< ~:{-GrAcE-}:~ >= rush rush rush says:
i dun get it lor
新的开始新的希望。。。愿这段路会好走。。。 says:
i think it depends on the situation
新的开始新的希望。。。愿这段路会好走。。。 says:
yup
新的开始新的希望。。。愿这段路会好走。。。 says:
but it is not very nice as when u see him u will feel hurt
新的开始新的希望。。。愿这段路会好走。。。 says:
or being reminded of the past
新的开始新的希望。。。愿这段路会好走。。。 says:
though ppl says what time can heal... ya rite
新的开始新的希望。。。愿这段路会好走。。。 says:
sometime one party may think why last we dun zhen xi each other. den ask for fu he... the other may not think that way... and things may be more complicated
新的开始新的希望。。。愿这段路会好走。。。 says:
so i rather not frens at all, unless is that u really know that person so well, and clear about each other that what your feel for him or vice versa is neutral not love anymore
=< ~:{-GrAcE-}:~ >= rush rush rush says:
wa
新的开始新的希望。。。愿这段路会好走。。。 says:
huh?
=< ~:{-GrAcE-}:~ >= rush rush rush says:
speechless
新的开始新的希望。。。愿这段路会好走。。。 says:
but it is interesting that u can still stay fren with ex...
新的开始新的希望。。。愿这段路会好走。。。 says:
means that wither u can not over about it or sth ba
新的开始新的希望。。。愿这段路会好走。。。 says:
cos its very hard to find zhi ji
=< ~:{-GrAcE-}:~ >= rush rush rush says:
means that wither u can not over about it or sth ba.. wad u mean?
新的开始新的希望。。。愿这段路会好走。。。 says:
i mean that either you cant over that relationship - meaning u still have that feel, or not will be the other case mention jus now
新的开始新的希望。。。愿这段路会好走。。。 says:
this kind of thing should be qte obvious - u know it yourselves...
=< ~:{-GrAcE-}:~ >= rush rush rush says:
haha, mine is e other one, where we both cld put down wad's tat over btw us. so yea. nth much
新的开始新的希望。。。愿这段路会好走。。。 says:
mean... i believe so... but that is what u think on the surface.
新的开始新的希望。。。愿这段路会好走。。。 says:
deep in ur heart - i think u still a little like him
新的开始新的希望。。。愿这段路会好走。。。 says:
or another way to say is that guy may be one u feel really comfortable with - the one u love most / perfer most compared to the other
新的开始新的希望。。。愿这段路会好走。。。 says:
that y u wanna stay in contact with him
新的开始新的希望。。。愿这段路会好走。。。 says:
and oso both parties muz be agreeable to it
新的开始新的希望。。。愿这段路会好走。。。 says:
ur char i feel lah.. can be very sui pian in certain things, but for love u are trying to be show ur brave side, inside you heart is very small
新的开始新的希望。。。愿这段路会好走。。。 says:
unlike those who really look with their weak heart - like abit feel hurt
新的开始新的希望。。。愿这段路会好走。。。 says:
but when come to love they may handle it better than the brave side one
新的开始新的希望。。。愿这段路会好走。。。 says:
is always that way... yue qiang jiang de ren qi shi xin le shi zui cui rou de
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i always wonder y u put ... i guess you are not over with a guy u like - but i dunno who
新的开始新的希望。。。愿这段路会好走。。。 says:
so when u see him u start emo the rest of the day
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proj workload add on to this factor
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LOL
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or wadeva u describe urself
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or maybe diff ppl have diff ways of handling
新的开始新的希望。。。愿这段路会好走。。。 says:
it s hard u know
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to treat nth happen b4
新的开始新的希望。。。愿这段路会好走。。。 says:
u best remedy is to be fren with ur ex
新的开始新的希望。。。愿这段路会好走。。。 says:
but to them is to look fwd and continue with life
新的开始新的希望。。。愿这段路会好走。。。 says:
i guess u 2 tog b4 somewhat should know what he is thinking
新的开始新的希望。。。愿这段路会好走。。。 says:
or another to say - both of you dunno each in depth
新的开始新的希望。。。愿这段路会好走。。。 says:
so he cant cross himself to be frens again
新的开始新的希望。。。愿这段路会好走。。。 says:
if let say he ignore it show that he really give out on a most basic relation - frenship
新的开始新的希望。。。愿这段路会好走。。。 says:
den why bother-- and make yourself bad, sad, emo